We had a physio appointment today with the most cantankerous woman I have ever met. It was our 4th visit and the only reason we keep seeing her is because a)she's free b)she comes to the house and c)the agency doesn't have another available physio. She's really negative and directly implies that the reason my son isn't walking is because I coddle him and let him play with toys on the floor. Like I need a guilt trip on top of everything else! I do a perfectly good job of feeling guilty for everything all on my own thankyouverymuch.
Anyway, she asked how my son was doing and I told her that it feels like he's plateaued and that we hadn't noticed much improvement over the past couple of weeks. She did her exercises with him and, shock of all shocks, proclaimed that he had made huge progress! I couldn't believe my ears, or my eyes for that matter, because my son was initiating stepping! I don't know what surprised me more, my son willingly stepping or the physio saying something positive for once. It was a day of firsts!
He still has a long way to go but if I stabilize one leg, he will step with the opposite one which is so huge for the little guy. Not long ago I couldn't even get him to bear weight on his feet so I'm thrilled with the progress. I've been so engrossed in the widening developmental gap between him and his twin that I didn't even see what was right in front of me. I think it's time for me to take a step back and appreciate all the wonderful things that he can do instead of what he can't.
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I am so happy for you. I can not imagine how difficult it must be constantly having to compair the two children. I am a bit of a ship wrack after every playdate. But you are right we have to celebrate every little progress and accept them for the individual they are.
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